@russian, I won't even bother with my CB600F connector and I will most likely redo the whole harness. But I am more interested in the connector you already have, which is the TE 176122-6 (Honda OBD1 ECU). I also have a spare Honda OBD1 ECU that I will be using for my tests. I don't mind the OBD2 that you suggested as well. They have those too:
http://www.alibaba.com/trade/search?fsb=y&IndexArea=product_en&CatId=&SearchText=obd2+ecu+connector+kinkong
@kb1gtt, I would consider choosing the most popular ECU connector and Hondas are still the most popular for tuning. I would go as far as making them have similar pinouts. That's why I particularly like the TE 176122-6. Unless you think we need more than 64 pins. But that may just be me.

But do consider the most popular platform and make it compatible to it. It is the best way to get more users as well.
Anyways, here are the mates for Cap Housing, 64 Position 176122-6 ECU Connector
Housing, 16 Position 178795-1
Housing, 22 Position 178798-1
Housing, 26 Position 178801-1
I just browsed more and found they have Motec style connectors as well. That would actually be my first choice since they are waterproof. A motec style pin tail would be AWESOME!
http://kinkong.en.alibaba.com/search/product?SearchText=MotecHaltech